Halloween; Spooky or Simply
Tips for Halloween, Ghosts, Goblins and Emotion Coaching: Building the Relationship that Keeps Your Child Working with You
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Mary Sheedy Kurcinka Ed.D and Lynn Jessen MA
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“Pick up your shoes.” “Clean your room.” “Put away your toys.” “Set the table.” Whenever, these directives cross your mind, odds are an internal battle begins.
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